Open Windows

“Just living is not enough,” said the butterfly, “one must have sunshine, freedom, and a little flower.”

Hans Christian Anderson

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Hello Friend,

Come in, come in! It’s hard to believe the summer holidays are over, isn’t it? What a busy summer it’s been, and what a long time since our last visit.

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Image by TerriC of Pixabay

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The tea is ready and, for a change, we’re having sourdough bread with freshly made raspberry jam. Our raspberries were late this year, and not as many as I would have expected, but enough for one batch of jam. I amazed myself with how good it turned out, teehee. I used my great aunt’s very simple recipe, and that’s the one I’ll be using from now on.

Aunt Nita's Raspberry Jam

4 Cups raspberries
2 Cups sugar
1 Tablespoon lemon juice

Bring to a boil. Boil 15 minutes.
Blend for a couple minutes.
Transfer to hot sterilized jars, cover with sterilized lids.

For me, I think the trick was that I used a high-end blender on highest setting, and let it blend until I was sure all of the seeds were pulverized. It’s the seeds that hold the pectin, I’m told. And voila! Best jam ever.

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We’ve had some glorious sunrises these last few days – brilliant pinks and peaches, the sun a dazzling orb of orange as it crests the horizon. I wonder if I’ve appreciated them more after the record breaking rain we’ve experienced this summer. By record breaking I mean, for example, that for the month of June we broke a rainfall record that was one hundred and twelve years old.

The rain affected the growing things here at The Cleft in different ways. Struggling little trees we’d planted six years ago suddenly bushed out in all their glory. The hollyhocks flourished, some reaching a height of ten feet! In the vegetable garden, almost all of my cucumber plants didn’t make it, but the two that did are amazing. Potatoes are fine. Carrots and tomatoes are late.

As for the flowers, remember the perennial seeds I brought home with me from the Butchart Gardens? At the moment, there are two short rows of plants that are three inches high. Very sad for me, and I wonder if they’ll actually come back next year since there are no seeds to drop from mature plants. Not knowing this just shows how little I know about flower gardening! I’ll have to do some research.

However, the annual seeds I brought home in a packet entitled Jennie Butchart’s Annual Garden came up splendidly! They were the last seeds I planted in the spring, and since they came all mixed together and I didn’t know which was which, I just planted them randomly in a little plot all together. The result makes me smile every time I see the it from my kitchen window over the sink. Unfortunately, I don’t have a proper photo. As for my tried and true flowers, some struggled and some thrived. It was just that kind of year.

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Image by kp yamu Jayanath from Pixabay

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I suppose all of this highlights the truth that one can have too much of a good thing. Rain is a good and necessary element for all living things, and yet too much of it can be devastating, as we’re well aware.

“Too much of a good thing” is a phrase in Shakespeare’s play, As You Like It, written in 1600. However, the earliest known writing of it was in a poem by John Lydgate in 1430: “For whoso hath too much of any good, Of that same good he shall be soon bereft.” It was written during a time of great social and political upheaval. The Hundred Years’ War was still raging (can you imagine?), and the Black Death had recently devastated Europe. Hmmm, sound familiar? (See here for more if you’re interested)

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Image by Kerstin Riemer from Pixabay

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Life is fragile, and we need to be noticers of it as it goes by; to acknowledge and cherish the little moments that make living bearable and even lovely. Because yes, life can be so very lovely, can’t it?

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Close your eyes and turn your face into the wind. Feel it sweep along your skin in an invisible ocean of exultation. Suddenly, you know you are alive.

Vera Nazarian, The Perpetual Calendar of Inspiration

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I like to keep my windows open, even on rainy days. Just to watch the lace curtains billowing in the breeze and to hear favourite sounds from outside–birdsong and the wind in the trees–calms me. Recently, Sweetie shared a piece of music with me that I’ve been playing on repeat. It features the call of the loon which, alone, can be a haunting and lonely sound. But this composer has combined it with other birdsong and put it all together in a beautiful composition that I find so soothing.

As you listen, I hope you’re able to take a deep, soul-cleansing breath, and recognize the wondrous, beautiful, astonishing things that make life so very lovely.

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Thank you so much for stopping in. This visit has been the highlight of my day, and I hope we can do it again soon. Stay safe out there and see you next time.

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Feature Image by Jud from Pixabay

© Joy Bailey, September 2026

Rain and Blueberry Tea

I will love the sun for it warms my bones; yet I will love the rain for it cleanses my spirit.

Og Mandino

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Hello Friend,

What a perfect day for a visit. I’m so happy to see you! Don’t mind the rain, and please come in. We’ll hang your raincoat on the coat tree; your wet shoes can go there. Will you put on these cozy slippers? I keep them for such a time as this.

Come sit by the fire, wrap yourself in this fuzzy-backed quilt, and I’ll bring our tea. Have I mentioned this blueberry tea before? With a little bit of pistachio flavoured creamer, it’s delicious! Fresh and soothing all at once. But feel free to have it without creamer if you prefer. It’s delicious that way too.

I made my old standby–sour cream coffee cake with a cinnamon-y sugar crumble on top. It’s still warm from the oven. Would you like a piece?

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I’m actually thrilled to see the rain. It’s been so dry around here; every time The Cowboy has mowed the lawn recently he’s created clouds of dust. The earth has been so thirsty! So yes, I welcome a five-day rain. And I’ve made a wonderful discovery … the birds still sing during the rain! It’s magical.

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Photo by Shutter Verse on Unsplash

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I love to listen to the rain: gentle rain, torrential downpour, thundering skies far away or right above our rooftop. Of course, it sounds so much better when I’m safely indoors at home, and I know that all the hatches are battened down inside and out. “Batten down the hatches.” Now there’s a phrase I haven’t used in forever. I looked up its origins and, as I’d suspected, it’s a naval term. Back in the 19th century, when ships encountered rough seas or storms, the crew would close the open hatchways and secure canvas over them with strips of wood called battens. Thus “batten down the hatches.” There’s your history lesson for the day.

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After the rain, truth finds a way to shine through the clouds.

Alexandra Elle

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I got the vegetable garden planted before the rains came: potatoes, carrots, tomatoes, cucumbers, etc. Then my mind turned to flower gardens. As I’ve mentioned before, I’m a novice flower gardener, and I’m always a little embarrassed when I don’t even know common names of the flowers I’m looking at.

On our May holiday to Vancouver Island, where we visited The Butchart Gardens, I had to inquire several times about plants I loved but didn’t know what to call. At this time of year, the gardens were bursting with tulips and camellias, among other things, in almost every colour you could imagine. Tulips I knew; I had to ask someone what the camellias were.

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The Sunken Garden, Butchart Gardens

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For those of you unfamiliar with these world-famous gardens, Jennie Butchart began creating them 122 years ago. It has now grown to 55 acres and is still privately owned and operated by the family. They are open year round, and every time you go you will see something new. Plan to spend several hours, if you go, and make sure to book a time for Afternoon Tea. What a lovely experience! Everything you need to know about the gardens is here.

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Camellias

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Tulips

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What sunshine is to flowers, smiles are to humanity. These are but trifles, to be sure; but scattered along life’s pathway, the good they do is inconceivable.

Joseph Addison

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I bought some flower seeds at The Butchart Gardens. The title on the packet was “Cottage Garden” and it held five envelopes of perennials and annuals. On a day when the rain let up for a few hours, The Cowboy and I planted them, along with the bedding plants. I prayed over those seeds as we planted them because, as I’ve said, I don’t really know what I’m doing when it comes to flowers. I know things like petunias, geraniums, and marigolds grow well here in our zone. Everything else feels like a bit of a gamble. So every year when the seeds I plant actually come up and flourish, my soul does a happy dance.

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As the years pass, I am coming more and more to understand that it is the common, everyday blessings of our common everyday lives for which we should be particularly grateful. They are the things that fill our lives with comfort and our hearts with gladness — just the pure air to breathe and the strength to breathe it; just warmth and shelter and home folks; just plain food that gives us strength; the bright sunshine on a cold day; and a cool breeze when the day is warm.

Laura Ingalls Wilder

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Let us strive to know the LORD. His appearance is as sure as the dawn. He will come to us like the rain, like the spring showers that water the land.

Hosea 6:3

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It looks like the rain has let up a little. Now might be a good time to venture outside. I have a few marigolds left, would you like to take them with you to plant in your garden? Thank you so much for stopping by, it’s been lovely visiting with you. Stay safe out there, and see you next time.

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Feature Image by Jill Wellington of Pixabay

©Joy Bailey, June 2026

March Daybook and Other Things

March so fickle, March so fair,
Pouting, shy, with wind-blown hair,
Nut-brown shawl and crocus cup,
Smile that lights the whole world up.
- Sara L. Vickers Oberholtzer -

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Hello Friend,

Come in! Come in. You are very welcome here. Hasn’t it been a long time? Please have a seat by the fire. March is so unpredictable, and today is one of those days when a fire is cozy and reassuring.

A lot of life has gone by since our last visit; in the world and for each of us personally. Are we the same people we were six months ago? I do pray that at our core we’re still noticing the beauties around us, big and little; that our faith hasn’t wavered and our courage holds fast.

I’ve been baking Amish Friendship Bread. Won’t you have a slice or two? I prefer it with butter. Would you? It will go very well with our tea. Cream and sugar are there for your choosing too.

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Image by congerdesign from Pixabay

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Outside my window …

As usual, our March weather has been erratic. Some days one thinks, “Ah, finally Lady Spring has arrived!” On other days it still feels like Old Man Winter hangs on with his powerful grip. Funny how we think of winter as Old Man, but by this time of the year he has grown old, in more ways than one. And we’re ready for spring to come in as a lady. We’re ready for beauty and elegance. This week, on her first day, Lady Spring didn’t know whether to rain or snow. We had no sun, but a little bit of this and that all day: rain, sleet, snow. I suppose as she grows into herself, she’ll realize what she can do.

Spring was moving in the air above and in the earth below and around him, penetrating even his dark and lowly little house with its spirit of divine discontent and longing.

Kenneth Grahame (The Wind in the Willows)

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Until we get a proper bird feeder, I put a plastic container outside the window. What a delight it’s been to watch the happy chickadees flutter and flit under the porch roof to perch on the rocking chair before deeming it safe enough to nibble. They hop right into that little bowl, politely taking turns.

The birds around me hopped and played,
Their thoughts I cannot measure:-
But the least motion which they made
It seemed a thrill of pleasure.

William Wordsworth
from his poem, Lines Written in Early Spring

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An unexpected thrill this morning: while I was out on the deck, the grand duchess of birds flew overhead. A swan! It’s the first time I’ve ever witnessed a swan in flight.

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I’ve been reading …

Elizabeth Fair is an English author whose novels were published between 1952 and 1960. “Perfect light reading with a dash of lemon in it …” and “All [her novels] are characterized by their English countryside settings and their shrewd and witty study of human nature” are just a few descriptions of the books. Her humour has been compared to that of Trollope and Jane Austen. You get into each character’s head, learn who they are. And, for me, each character’s foibles and ways, how they like, dislike, have opinions about, and get on with their neighbours is hilarious, and could be written about anyone today. That’s what makes her books timeless. Landscape in Sunlight has been my favourite so far.

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I’ve been watching …

The Ken Burns documentary on Mark Twain. So interesting, of which, learning how Samuel Clemens chose the pseudonym Mark Twain, was most interesting of all. I highly recommend it. We found it on PBS.

In the Spring, I have counted 136 different kinds of weather inside of 24 hours.

Mark Twain

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I am wearing …

Black pants, flowery blouse with ties at the neckline and pretty ruffles at the wrist, lip gloss called Blanche, and my favourite fragrance – Femme.

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A few recent delights

  • the way the lace curtains puffed out at the open window in my library on a fine day
  • sitting at my (finally) clean and organized desk
  • receiving a beautiful card in the mail (shown in the book photo above) from my writing buddy. She even shared a pretty piece of cake and cup of tea in the form of stickers on the envelope.
  • chatting with daughters Sweetie, Peaches, and Babe individually, in person or by video chat
  • the way the snow sits like cotton balls atop the birdhouse outside my window
  • visits from all five grandchildren at different times in the last two months, one of whom asked to stay with us for a few days instead of having a birthday party. What an honour! Each of these singular little people brings so much joy to The Cowboy and me.
  • reminders of the blessing of dear friends through texts, visits, a card in the mail, a photo on my desk, needlework on my wall, a gift book with a marker at the page that reminds her of me, sharing the starter for Amish Friendship Bread.
So, blessed are our flying buttresses.
For they hold us up
when everything seems ready to come apart,
allowing us to face today-
not because we're doing it alone-
but precisely because we aren't.

Kate Bowler and Jessica Richie
(from The Lives We Actually Have pg. 61)

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I am creating …

I spent most of fall making quilts for six children. The one below was for Little Man’s birthday. The bison is a symbol of courage for him, and he has needed a lot of courage in the last couple of years. This bison is particularly fierce looking, and I hope he takes on some of that courage as he snuggles under it.

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For Christmas, Mom gave me a big ball of crochet cotton in soft pinks and greys, and I’ve been remembering the stitching I learned when I was younger. Back then I started and never finished an afghan. I loved the butter yellow colour developing into satisfying patterns. Mom found the unfinished project years after I’d begun it, and finished it for me. It is draped on the couch here in my library, and I still love the soothing buttery yellow of it. Dishcloths were first on the list with the new crochet cotton, and next I’ll learn how to make a potholder. There’s been a meme going around social media about how engaging in old lady crafts can add years to your life. I don’t know about that, but it certainly is a calming and de-stressing activity. I highly recommend it! You can find all kinds of tutorials online. I’m blessed to have my own master teacher living with me.

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I’m listening to …

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I’m so very glad you decided to stop in today. You’ve made this day lovely, and sometimes lovely days are hard to find. On hard days I try to remember that God is still in His heaven. He sees the beginning from the end. That means He already knows the end, and He’s not worried.

Thank you so much for coming. Stay safe out there, and see you next time.

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Feature Image by Luda Kot from Pixabay

©Joy Bailey, March 2026

Birthday Daybook

Time is such a funny thing; one minute it’s forever and the next, it’s gone.

Susan Branch

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Hello Friend,

I’m looking forward to our midsummer visit today. After all the rains, the sun is shining, and every kind of flora and vegetation is flourishing. By this time of day, the front veranda is in shade so we’ll sit out there in the breezy warmth. The rain is supposed to come back soon so let’s enjoy this while we can.

The rhubarb has erupted in big bushes – I’ve frozen some and baked with some. Today I made a rhubarb coffee cake. It’s a family favourite and I hope you’ll like it too.

I have coffee, hot or iced, on offer today. The Cowboy and I have taken to enjoying an iced coffee with a flavoured coffee enhancer in the hot afternoons. It’s so refreshing. Which would you prefer? As always, cream and sugar are there on the little table.

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Image by Nguyên Trần from Pixabay

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I had a birthday this week, and I decided to celebrate all week long. Every day, I did something to observe the occasion. From drinking Dr. Pepper out of a crystal goblet, to getting a pedicure. It was soul refreshing to do something a little extravagant every day; to be aware of things I love to do or see or hear, and make them happen. For someone who has spent most of her life catering to others, it was a blossoming exercise, and I highly recommend it.

Today

A little bit of this and a little bit of that …

I am wearing …

An orange sundress with white polka dots.

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You can’t have a bad day in polka dots.

Anna Kendrick

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Outside my window …

Pale blue skies, dark green evergreens, trembling aspens whispering to each other. The wheat field across the road is in the middle of its transformation from pale green to feathery blonde, a lush backdrop to the vibrant magenta petunias mushrooming out of my big pots on the corner of our property.

In the garden …

The Cowboy’s Grandma’s Hollyhocks are spreading. In a few years they should fill that flowerbed, just like they did at Grandma’s.

In the vegetable patch, I’ve pulled out all the overgrown radishes. They were bountiful and bushy. And tasty! But now they’ve become overgrown and not good for eating. For me, radishes are a vanity vegetable because they sprout quickly and always grow, in all conditions. They make you feel that you are a wonderful gardener. So I always make sure radishes are among the seeds I sow in the spring. They give me a boost when those little sprouts shoot up before anything else.

Birthday delights …

My birthday week began with a book in the mail from a dear reading and writing buddy. In A Year of Wonder, Clemency Burton-Hill tells a behind the scenes story of one classical piece of music each day. And you can find a soundtrack online to go with it. If you know me at all you know I love classical music, and I’m learning something new every day.

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Music, which extends across cultures and boundaries, which requires no translation to be understood, is the most uniting language we have.

Clemency Burton-Hill

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Mom made me something new for every day of my birthday week: quilted fabric baskets in lemony gingham, raspberry jam, crocheted potholders and a dishcloth in rainbow cotton. The amazing thing is that each thing she gave me, she had made that day!

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And of course, all the other birthday greetings were really lovely. From poetry shared by text to the Happy Birthday song sung over the phone, I felt special all week.

In progress …

Writing – A guest blog post on the topic Seasons of Life is in the works. So many ideas have been jotted down. So many ways this could go. I’m also working on a short story for an anthology: a grandma, a little girl, and a three-legged dog. It may or may not be ready to enter into a writing contest this month. And of course, I’m always working on Mom’s story, even if only in my head.

Quilting – I’m working on a new quilt that I chose because I think it’s pretty. It’s full of colourful butterflies on a background of white. I don’t know if it’s for me or someone else, but it doesn’t matter because the reason I quilt is for the joy of sewing and creating. Of course, like any serious quilter, there are a few others on the back burner…

Meanwhile, to switch things up, I’m attempting to make a handbag. We’ll see if I have any talent for this, but it will be fun to find out.

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Summer reading …

There is a temperate zone in the mind, between luxurious indolence and exacting work; and it is to this region, just between laziness and labor, that summer reading belongs.

Henry Ward Beecher

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I would recommend any one of these books, but I’ll highlight only a couple.

I spent a long time reading The Mitfords. These are actual letters exchanged between six sisters born between 1904 and 1920. They were prominent members of British society in the 1930’s and 40’s. Their lives are so interesting because the paths they took couldn’t be more polarizing, and I found myself wondering how these astoundingly unique personalities could have been raised in the same family. Among them are a lifelong fascist, a communist who became an American, a friend of Hitler and who moved in his closest circles, a successful author with a biting tongue. The least prominent sister became a farm manager; the youngest became the Duchess of Devonshire (she lived until 2014). The fascist and the communist didn’t speak or write to one another for over 30 years, but the others’ letters show a warmth for each other despite their radically individual views and life paths.

There are many documentaries on the sisters that you can find online, and BritBox just released a new series on the Mitfords entitled Outrageous. But I like this book because the letters are unfiltered and real, a glimpse into the authentic Mitford sisters.

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Of course, Hilary Mantel will always be one of my favourite writers, for her seemingly effortless ability for clear and beautiful writing. This book was published posthumously, and it’s a collection of some of her essays, articles, and lectures written throughout her life. “Compelling, often very funny, always luminous, it is essential reading from one of our greatest writers.”

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Ink is a generative fluid. If you don’t mean your words to breed consequences, don’t write at all.

Hilary Mantel

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I’m listening to …

The Year of Wonder soundtrack quite a lot over the last week.

But today I’m listening to a jazz playlist, and this. This! Is the epitome of summertime. Turn up the sound to hear all of the instruments clearly. And … is that someone humming in the background?

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Closing thoughts …

Here in Canada we have just come through a long weekend. The holiday Monday is called different things in different provinces. In Alberta it’s Heritage Day, but I think most Canadians just refer to it as August Long and look forward to the extra day off work. The Cowboy and I went to the parade in the little village near us, and from home we could hear the nightly performances taking place all weekend at the Music Festival there.

Well, I hope you enjoyed the coffee and the cake, and the rather long and lazy visit. Do come back soon. Stay safe out there, and see you next time.

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Feature image by Jill Wellington on Pixabay.

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